When we think about sexuality within the LGBTQ+ community, it’s often defined by desire, attraction, and sexual expression. But there’s a growing conversation around an alternative path: celibacy. For many queer folks, choosing celibacy is not about repression or denial but rather an intentional, personal decision to redirect energy away from sex and toward other aspects of life. Celibacy can...Continue Reading

Let’s get one thing straight — your body is not a problem. It is not up for debate, critique, or correction. We live in a world that has been trained to gaslight us into believing that only a narrow, rigid idea of beauty is valid. That is a lie. Let this post be a reminder and a resource. Here is...Continue Reading

Let’s be clear: love ain’t some magic cure for your broken heart or your boredom. Real love—the kind that sees you, chooses you, and grows with you—needs a solid foundation to stand on. You can’t expect it to bloom if you’re still tangled in the weeds of your last situation. And I mean really untangled—mind, heart, and spirit. Otherwise, you’re...Continue Reading

Let me tell you something right quick: Love is a shape-shifter. Shows up in different outfits and walks in through unexpected doors, sometimes uninvited, sometimes overdue. For us gay, lesbian, and queer folks, love can be incredibly layered. It’s political, personal, spiritual—it’s not just about who you hold at night; it’s about who you are when nobody’s watching. And look,...Continue Reading